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When is it okay to start worrying?
From Seth Godin’s blog:
A friend was waiting to hear about the results of a job interview. He hadn’t heard in a while and he asked me, “how long before I should start worrying?”
Of course, the answer is, “you should never start worrying.”
Worrying is not a useful output. Worrying doesn’t change outcomes. Worrying ruins your day. Worrying distracts you from the work at hand. You may have fooled yourself into thinking that it’s useful or unavoidable, but it’s not. Now you’ve got one more thing to worry about.
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The Road More or Less Traveled

Vacations to many people are sipping cocktails on the beach in Cabo with not a care in the world. They just want to veg out and be lazy and not have an agenda. That’s great and all, but that’s not a vacation to me. The kind of vacations I grew up on, and the kind I prefer now, are more exhausting than everyday life. I want to try and pack in as much as possible, take in all the sights, get up early, go to bed late. Sleeping in and being lazy are what weekends are for; I can do that at home!
I think what I like most about road trips is that I feel like I’ve actually traveled. It takes effort and patience to travel via roads. You can’t zonk out for 20 hours and wake up on the other side of the world. It’s a journey, just like in the pre-commercial airline days of ships and trains. I love to see the landscape change, even the climate. It’s a concept that non-road-trippers can’t grasp, especially in the “need-it-now” era.
Thankfully, my girlfriend is a fellow road-warrior. Six hours there and back in a day isn’t out of the ordinary for her. We must be made for one another…
Keep Your Weaknesses Weak
As a small business owner, I’m charged with the responsibility of wearing many difference hats. I’m the co-owner, sales and marketing director, gofer, custodial engineer, tech support, human resources, receptionist and many other things. Oh, and I actually have to do some accounting from time to time.
There are some tasks that I am just not at all good at and others areas where I excel. My partner and I complement each other well, in that he is mostly left-brained and is perfect for the accounting side of accounting (yes, that makes sense), whereas I’m left-brained, but also have a lot of right-brain tendencies. Since I am good at formulating words and coming up with ideas, I do the majority of our marketing material and sales calls, as well as the technical writing. My partner is much better at coming up with solutions to accounting issues without getting stuck in the details. He is quicker to think of things that may take me hours, or at least plenty of trial and error. In short, he is programmed for dealing with numbers in a way I can’t seem to grasp.
The reason I’m even talking about this is simple: our culture teaches us to improve our weaknesses while assuming our strengths will remain strong. My question is, If we’re so often focusing on weakness, is it reasonable to think our strengths will lose some of their punch?
I recently came across an article written by leadership expert and speaker, John Maxwell. He writes about how average people usually do not become extremely successful. People do not pay for average. An average business, career, or life makes no difference to anyone, really. I agree, for the most part, but what really stood out to me is the point of why I’m even writing about this: your strengths are strong for a reason, so stop wasting your time on trying to eradicate your weaknesses. Maxwell puts it this way:
I’d like to tell you something that goes against all of the rules you have ever been taught or have ever believed about weaknesses: From this moment on, stop working on your weaknesses. Why? Well, it’s very simple. It’s because we are weak in our weaknesses, so stop doing these things that you’re not any good at.
Our education system taught us to work on our weakness. If you got an A in math but a C in English, what did they tell you to work on? That’s right, English. They say, “Get that English grade up.”
I’m here to tell you, don’t work on your English. You ask, “Why shouldn’t I work on my English?” It’s very simple. You have a math mind. It’s not that you’re dumb; it’s just that your math mind is better than your English mind. You’re better at numbers than you are at words. It’s not right or wrong; it’s just who you are. It’s your uniqueness.
It’s something to think about. Try and look for ways in which you can delegate things you consider chores or a waste of time. In terms of leadership, a CEO of a company doesn’t do the majority of things that make a company run. No, the CEO makes sure that people are in place who are the best at what they do, and are doing it.
Companies who have lost focus are those who focus too much on trying to improve their weaknesses, while their competitors exploit that weakness by becoming even stronger in their strengths. This even applies to those of you who aren’t in leadership roles or even work in the business world. We all have a company to run, and it’s called You, Inc. (I stole that from somewhere.)
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This Says It All
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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2011-07-24
- this southern california weather never ever gets old… #
- world, meet oyster. #
- Is reason always reasonable? #philosophical #
- "I'm listening to NPR, wanna come over and make out?" #npr #pickuplines #hipster #
- One of the oldest human needs is having someone to wonder where you are when you don't come home at night. — Margaret Mead #
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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2011-07-17
- Think about this: almost everyone has more than the average number of feet. As in, to have two feet is therefore to have more than average. #
- ok, I'm making the switch to Google+ and canceling my twitter account. See you guys later, when you get with the times! #earlyadopter #
- It's 5:38. Time to rock out with my Bach out. #
- when someone says "no news is good news" I never know how they want me to interpret it. #cliches #
- noone can spell anymore. loosers. #
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Carmageddon!
The infamous 405 is going to be closed for a 10-mile section over the weekend so construction crews can demolish part of the Mulholland Bridge. There’s been adequate warnings for weeks with CalTrans even posting the info on their digital signage as far north as San Jose. Caution: hundreds of miles ahead, the 405 will be closed.
Officials are hoping for the best, but fearing the worst. I think it will most definitely be the worst. Too many idiots either will forget or not heed the warnings. There’s going to be logjams of epic proportions on the nearby surface streets that parallel the freeway. Might we see a traffic jam that rivals that one that was in India (I think?) last year, that lasted more than 24-hours? This is going to be awesome!!
“Carmageddon,” is what they’re calling it…
To keep traffic moving around the 10-mile closure area, officials say that 70% of the weekend traffic that would normally pass through that section of the 405 must be eliminated or diverted to public transit and other freeways. This has been the talk of the town the last week or two. I’m predicting a disaster with traffic logjams of epic proportions on surface streets (L.A. Times).
Here is an awesome PSA from our favorite California Highway Patrolman, Pauncherello:
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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2011-07-10
- it might be time to take my writing more srsly. found a handful of really great 'how to write' books @B&N. Now, where did I put my quill? #
- I thought it was funny.. Have u thought about using LinkExchange 4 ur blog? @brandonacox Sorry. 1990's web jokes don't really work anymore. #
- a textbook without an index? ayyyyyyy… #
- #CAPPS webinar fail. no audio! I don't think I am screwing this up? There's no audio controls. my volume is up. hmm ok. #bugger #
- growing pains theme song in my head = awesome for shower singing #TVthemesongs #
- who's the creeper sitting on the couch?! lol :P (live at http://ustre.am/AFrr) #
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- Lauren, when are you coming down to the OC so I can take you to dinner?? :D (live at http://ustre.am/AFrr) #
- when a couple gets married, two more single people die. #
- Billie Jean King is not my lover. #
- not really digging the new peter furler record. #newsboys #christianmusic #
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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2011-07-03
- san dimas high school football rules! #moviequotes #
- it's still rock-n-roll to me #billyjoel #
- "An immigrant's refrigerator is the very last place to look for signs of assimilation." – Michael Pollan #OmnivoresDilemma #food #
- rocking out to some vintage #Plankeye never gets old… one of my first rock albums. #
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The California Dream is Fizzling Out…?
That was the headline of a recent CNN.com article I’ve been sitting on for days… thinking about how I wanted to respond to it.
Do people still move to California to follow their dreams? It seems as though that era started with the Gold Rush and ended somewhere in the middle of the 20th century. What is the California Dream anyways? Moving out West to escape your past and experience a fresh start with new and exciting opportunities, perhaps?
To get an idea of the “fizzling” out of the California Dream we’re talking about here, the last 10 years have seen the biggest slump in population growth since 1850 – yes, you read that right. The largest slump in 161 years.
The Gold Rush, land ownership, Hollywood, jobs, the tech boom, weather, the ocean… At one time or another, all of these things were valid reasons for schlepping west. It seems, however, these reasons have by and large disappeared.
Obviously, there is no more gold to be found. Land is so scarce that if, “growth continued at the pace it did from 1960 to 2000, there would be one person per square foot in the state within 300 years. People would have to ‘stand on each others shoulders’ in order to fit,” according to Hans Johnson, a demographer at the Public Policy Institute of California. Johnson is being a little hyperbolic, as he’s comparing a 40 year growth spurt to a period almost 8 times that.
Although California’s economy is still the 8th largest in the world in terms of GDP, the unemployment rate as of June 17, 2011, is 11.7%, or 2.6% higher than the U.S. unemployment rate. Not to mention, businesses are leaving the state in droves: 193 businesses left California in 2010, nearly 4X the 2009 number of 51. This has mostly to do with the state’s corporate tax rate amongst the highest in the nation. With California’s continued budget deficits, it’s not likey to decrease any time soon.
The dot com bubble no doubt caused an influx of jobs and money into the California economy. Since the bubble burst and the survivors have emerged from the ashes in the last decade, the tech industry is largely stable and isn’t contributing nearly as much growth to the state’s economy.
So what’s left to move to California for? Not gold, not land, not jobs. Hollywood? Do people still move to Hollywood to pursue their dreams? You hear hundreds of stories about thespians following their Hollywood dreams, but that was primarily concentrated during the “Golden Age” of Hollywood; the studio system responsible for the production and distribution of film from the 1920s to the 1950s. However, the fact that the joke about asking your waiter or waitress why they came to California (“I’m an actor”) is still relevant, maybe they do.
One of the few things Southern California still has going for it these days is, according to John D. Sutter of CNN.com, “the natural setting: always sunny; always 70-something degrees outside; mountains in one direction; ocean in the other. Palm trees peer out from the hills like long-necked, shaggy-haired giraffes. Soil in the valleys supports all kind of exotic and lucrative plants, from avocados to lima beans.” So, besides the smog, the weather may be the sole legitimate reason for still pursuing that “California Dream.” Is that even a dream?
Why did I move to California? Besides the weather, it wasn’t for any of the reasons mentioned above. However, despite the “fizzle” of the California Dream suggested by the CNN.com article that inspired this post, I still had an idea of what that “dream” meant for me. Independence, endless opportunities, an unrivaled melting pot of cultures, being a tourist whenever I want to be… I decided I wanted to live in California, so I got a job upon graduating college and just moved.
In my mind, I suppose I do idealize a lot of what I perceive draws me to California. But it’s okay. I’m surviving. I’m thriving. The cost of living, the endless traffic, the overcrowding, it all comes with the territory; it might be why the state’s population growth has slowed, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.
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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2011-06-26
- I can't remember if I had dinner tonight…. #forgetful #old #being29sucks #
- 117/77 – finally! #ftw #nodrugs #bloodpressure #
- towing a boat across the country, windows down, heater on full blast, toddler w/ the runs, sitting in a puddle of poo? #worstsummervacation #
- In the 1820s, more than 5 gallons of spirits a year were consumed by every man, woman, and child in America. Today? Less than one gallon. #
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- summer was better when I was 0-15yrs old. i.e., before jobs. #nostalgic #summer #
- haha that's amazing!! @lemonadestorm You know you're tired when you bring your coffee with you to shower in the am #
- congrats to @DiaFramps – a most hyped artist on @lastfm this week – up **914%**!!!! #
- 'there are few things humans eat that are quite so elemental as lettuce, a handful of leaves' – #OmnivoresDilemma #organicfarming #lettuce #
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Slow Drivers, Get Out of Our Way
I cannot stand slow drivers who don’t move over to the right lanes. Thankfully, in L.A. we have lots of lanes so it’s not always so bad; however, when you have people behind you and they, one-by-one, start passing you on the right, isn’t that a hint?
Lately, I’ve been flooring it past these left-lane abusers and quickly (and safely!) cut in front of them. I’m sure it makes no difference, but it makes me feel better. I’m seriously considering getting some ‘Road Rage‘ signs, like ‘GET OUT OF THE FAST LANE, MORON!’ but I’m also fearful for my safety. That would inevitably lead to some sort of profiling, as I wouldn’t want to bully a senior citizen or a gangsta.
Anyway, LZ Granderson has a great commentary of which this is a part of:
I would much rather have someone pull up beside me, roll down their window and flip me the bird as they go driving by than be trapped behind this vehicular anarchist.
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